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Introduction:
The Three Truths
The
Three Truths
Courage,
common sense, and commitment are the tools that you
must possess in order to make "Tricks of the Grade"
work for you. However, there are three truths that
you must also keep in mind as you apply each of the
strategies. Although these truths sound simple, most
college students do not recognize them as being important.
Once you accept these truths as fact, I guarantee
your road to academic success will be much smoother
and more prosperous. So what are they?<
Truth
#1: Teachers are human beings, too.
I
know this sounds simplistic, but from what I've seen
as both a student and college professor, students
don't believe this. Because of the professors' degrees
and numerous books they've authored, students tend
to place their professors on a pedestal; and in some
respect, students treat them like they're some kind
of god (or least some professors think they are).
As human beings, professors have egos like you and
me, and teaching gives them a sense of perceived power.
And in their own eyes, they are powerful.
A
professor's perceived power clouds a student's ability
to look at them objectively. So what if we know more
than you, does that make us any better than you? No,
it just makes us more educated. Students fail to realize
that professors are just like them. They have personal
lives with personal problems and issues. How do I
know? Because I'm one of them (and I knew this fact
as a student). Professors have relationship problems,
they run numerous errands, pay bills, live on a budget,
get sick, run out of toilet paper, get speeding tickets,
argue with their employers, etc.
Why do I say all of this? Because one
of the biggest mistakes students make is to think
that professors are fair. Hello! We're not. We try
to be, but we can't be. It's part of human nature.
If humans were fair, then we would all spend our money
equally at restaurants, gas stations, grocery stores,
etc. It's not that we're intentionally trying to be
unfair, but we "prefer" certain places, things, and
people in comparison to others.
Therefore,
we (professors) play favorites. I know that most of
my colleagues wouldn't want me to tell you this, but
it's the truth. You play favorites, I play favorites,
so why wouldn't professors do it? There is no one
on God's green earth who is totally objective. This
is an important concept, because universities and
colleges have been preaching objectivity since the
dawn of time. That's just not the case. Again, we
try to be fair, but it is close to impossible to be
totally objective when it comes to students. Even
when I became a professor, I tried to dispel this
theory and I couldn't do it. Human nature tells us
that there will always be certain people we like more
than others. This truth leads us to the second truth.<
Truth
#2: Your grades aren't everything, but your reputation
is.
This
is one of the most important facts students fail to
recognize. So many times, students are so involved
and concerned about their grades, they fail to consider
how they're being perceived. Understand this from
a professor's point of view, there is a huge difference
between an "A" student who is a jerk, and a "B" student
who works hard and has earned the respect of her peers.
Because of that difference in perception, that "B"
student will invariably find the doors of opportunity
opened to her more often than that "A" student will.
It's called "the way it is."
I
tell my students that if you want to succeed on any
college or university campus, all you have to do is
look at what most of the students are doing, and then
do the total opposite. Because if you do what
most students do, you're going to get what most students
get: frustration, confusion, resentment, mediocrity,
etc. Most students spend too much time worrying about
their grades than working on their reputation. Unfortunately,
perception is reality, and how you're perceived by
your professors will "unfairly" dictate your success
as a student.
To
give you an example of what I'm talking about, I would
like you to participate HONESTLY in the following
exercise. I want you to close your eyes right now,
and think about the WORST teacher you ever had in
either college or high school. Now think of three
adjectives that teacher would use to describe your
work habits to another teacher, and write your answers
on page one of your worksheet packet:<<
Do
these adjectives paint an accurate picture of you?
Whether it does or doesn't isn't the point. The truth
is, this is how you're perceived in that particular
teacher's eyes. We've all heard the phrase that perception
is reality; well, it's also true in college.
Now
ask yourself, if your next teacher was given this
description of you on the first day of class before
meeting you, would it have any impact on your reputation?
Do you think that professor would form any biases
toward you because of that description? You better
believe it. Remember when I said that teachers are
human beings too? Guess what, they also gossip like
students do.
Believe
it or not, professors spend more time talking about
you than you do about them. Remember, this is our
job, not yours. This was one of the few theories I
could not prove until I became a professor.
The
sad part is that it may take you four years
to build a good college student reputation, but all
it takes is one professor to ruin it. Another
little known fact is that the smaller the school or
class size, the more important your reputation is.
I
repeat, your grades aren't everything, but your reputation
is! Think about it for a second, do you think that
a student who is known in the math department as responsible,
hard working, and focused, has an advantage over one
who is known as irresponsible, lazy, and confused?
You better believe it. It's your job to set yourself
apart from other students (see the section Student
Stranglers). Accept this truth, and you'll be
on your way to academic success!
Truth
#3: There's no easy way, just a better way.
You
probably purchased this book because you thought it
would make your college experience a lot easier. Well,
it won't. However, I do believe it will make your
experience a lot better. Your mother or father probably
told you that anything worth having is worth working
hard for. This is true. These "tricks" are not a "get
rich quick" approach to a successful academic career.
They take time and effort, and they will work, if
you do.
For
the record, let me dispel any "pie in the sky" ideas
you may have about my strategies. You will have to
attend class, you will have to take notes, you will
have to study, and you will have to work hard. "WHAT"
you have to do to succeed in college hasn't changed,
but "HOW" you do it is an entirely different story.
My "HOW" strategies will show you how to succeed academically
in ways that will sometimes shock you. These "tricks"
are simple, but they are not easy. You will find out
quickly, what's often nothing more than common sense,
isn't always common knowledge. Remember what I told
you earlier. You need courage, common sense, and commitment.
And the only obstacles in your way are fear, laziness,
and YOU!
The
"Tricks of the Grade" is broken down into three parts:
Base Building Basics, Teacher Taming Techniques, and
Street-Smart Study Strategies. There are a total of
ten (10) "tricks." Believe it or not, most students
won't even make it through the first three. Why? I
don't know, that's just human nature I guess. That's
why it's so important to do the opposite of what most
people (especially students) would do, and you will
be successful.
So
tie your shoe laces, and let's get started with the
"Tricks of the Grade." These are strategies that will
change your academic career forever.
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