Base
Building Basics | 3. Break
the Curve | 3a.
Break the Curve Action Steps
Trick
3: Break the Curve
The
third step to achieving academic success in
college is to expect and believe you will receive
the best grade in the class.
This
is the last base building strategy, and I believe
it will immediately transform your grades. But it's
also the toughest one to internalize. "Breaking the
Curve" means you must expect to succeed. Why is this
such a tough concept to internalize? Because most
people have been programmed to think of themselves
as being average and to accept mediocrity. I know
because I was one of them. Most of us doubt ourselves
and our abilities. You don't believe me, try giving
one of your friends a sincere compliment, and watch
their reaction. If they're like most people, they
will be a little embarrassed and even try to deny
the compliment.
This
third step speaks to the essence of who you are and
what you believe about yourself. When I was in high
school, my self esteem was below average. I was short
(still am), skinny (still am), and often overlooked
by females (hit a home run). I really didn't believe
that I was an unattractive guy because a lot of my
less attractive friends didn't have a problem dating
women. However, my level of self confidence was nothing
to be desired.
It
wasn't until my coach asked me to join the wresting
team when my confidence begin to take a turn for the
better. My physical confidence somehow spilled over
into my emotional confidence. Now don't get me wrong,
I still was no lady magnet, but I noticed that as
my confidence increased so did female interest. The
point of the matter is that I noticed that people
believe in those who believe in themselves. It works
the same way academically. Professors believe in
students who believe in themselves.
As
a "C"
student, I don't think
I really doubted myself, but that's
the impression I gave my teachers. And I have a saying,
we don't
get what we want out of life, we get what we expect.
Nothing demonstrates this point more so than the following
illustration:
The
Grading System Set-up
A
= Excellent
B
= Good
C
= Average
D
= Bad
F
= Worst
Listed
above is the typical grading scale at a typical college
or university. Some colleges have a plus and minus
system, but the concept I will illustrate is still
the same.
Being
totally honest with yourself, have you ever been in
a difficult course or had a difficult professor in
college in which you said to yourself or to another
person, "Man, I hope
I pass this class."
When I ask this question across the country, almost
unanimously students raise their hand in confession
(present company included). I did it all the time
throughout high school, just hoping I'd
pass.
However,
there's a serious
problem with that wish, and it's
the main reason I earned mostly "C's"
in high school. Let me explain.
If
you're a student in a college class, and you're
just "hoping" you will pass the class, in all likelihood,
what grade are you aiming for? Unanimously, in unison,
students answer a "C."' Because in all reality what is a "C"? It's
a "passing"
grade. If you get a "C"
you're just happy you're still alive. However,
the problem with this way of thinking can be hazardous
to your GPA.
If
you're aiming for a "C," like a goal, you have a 50/50 chance
of achieving it. See how all this stuff ties in together.
So there's a chance you will reach it, and there's
a chance you won't. Now if you do reach this goal
of a "C," you're
happy, and you go on to the next class. But what
happens if you miss your goal? More than likely, you
will either hit a "D" or an "F."' Has that ever happened to a student
before? Probably more than we would like to admit.
I know it happened to me a lot.
When
I got to college, I knew I had to get off the "C-your-way-through-school" treadmill. So I asked myself, what would
happen if I actually strived for an "A" in every class regardless of the level
of difficulty? The answer almost made me drop dead
after my first semester in college. I actually convinced
myself not only that I would get an "A"
in every class, but that I also "deserved" to get an "A" in every course regardless of the course.
By the way, with a little change in my philosophy,
I ended up pulling a 4.0 (17 credits) my first semester
in college.
Sounds
like a lot of positive thinking, right? Well that's part true.
It also had to do with an unbelievable amount of faith
in God and belief in myself.
I
mentioned earlier in my introduction that teachers
are human beings, and thus play favorites. That is
true, but I don't believe God does. Why would God
equip you with something and not equip me with similar
tools. Given, your tools may be a little nicer and
even sharper than mine, but we do have the same tools:
a mind to think with, a heart to love with, and a
soul to pray with. I just may need to spend more
time polishing and sharpening my tools.
With
that mentality, I asked myself in every class, has
anyone ever made an "A"
in this course before? If so, why couldn't I be
the next? God assured me that I could. It was the
most enlightening revelation of my academic life.
I realized that college does not measure your intelligence,
it measures your endurance. Remember? It's not about
"IQ," but "I
Will."'
The
highest possible grade in a class is an "A."' That means that even the "not
so bright ones" like me
could get one. I say that facetiously, but I think
you get the picture.
Let's
look at the power behind raising your expectations.
If you walk into that same tough course and "expect" to get an "A," there's
a 50/50 chance you will get it, right? If you reach
that goal, you will have astonished your friends,
your parents, and maybe even yourself. Give yourself
a pat on the back, and get ready for the next course.
Now if you shoot for that "A,"
but you miss, what grade would you more than likely
get from that class? You're
right, you would probably earn a "B" or, at the worst, a "C."'
Does this make sense? See, it doesn't
take a rocket scientist to figure this concept out.
We don't
get what we want, we get what we expect. You can
never raise your standards by lowering your expectations.
Just
to test this concept further, when I first started
teaching at the college level, I asked all of my students
on the first day of class two questions: 1.) How
many of you "want"
an "A"
out of my course? and 2.) How many of you "expect" to get an "A" out of my course? When I asked the class
the first question, usually 30 students out of 30
would raise their hand; but when I asked the class
the second question, only 2 or 3 would raise their
hand. Take a wild guess on how many received "A's" at the end of the semester? That's
right, only 2 to 3. If that doesn't make my point
clear, nothing will.
Well
you might be saying, "Yeah
Joe, I'm convinced,
I need to raise my expectations in the classroom."' But there's even more
to this concept. As simple as the idea of raising
your expectations may sound, I have something that's
a little more radical to share with you. Let's
re-examine the grading chart that I mentioned earlier.
Have
you ever noticed how hard you worked in a class when
you realized that you might miss a "C" and get a "D" in it? You were willing to do whatever
took to avoid repeating that course. You would study
like someone promised you a million dollar reward
or something. I know, I've
been there. I just thought it would make sense to
do it with my new grading system. Anytime I ever
got close to not getting a "B," I would kick it into another gear. It
was just a psychological thing. I can't
explain it any better than that, but it worked.
2.)
Common Sense
I
was always happy making "C's"
in high school until I discovered the true definition
of a "C."'
Most would define a "C" as being average. And they would be
right, but what is the true definition of the word
"average"? Allow me to define it for you. If
a person is average, that means they are better than
the worst (i.e., D's and F's), right? But that would
also mean that they are worst than the best (i.e.,
A's
and B's), right?
So if a "C" student is worst than the best and only
better than the worst, doesn't
that make them "Cream of
the Crap"? Now,
I don't
know about you, but I'd
rather not accept that as a compliment.
Those
two reasons gave me the motivation I needed to design
my own grading system. For the record, I don't want
to imply that getting a "C" makes you any less than
a human being. If the best grade you can earn in
any class is a "C" (even a D or F for that matter),
be proud of your effort. However, if you get a "C"
or lower in a course (and you shouldn't if you apply
these strategies), and you know in your heart you
"could have" done better, you should be ashamed of
yourself. I sure was embarrassed at my high school
graduation. Don't be proud of your grades, be proud
of your effort. Raise your standards by raising your
expectations.