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August
and September (Depending on the date your
school starts) are crucial months for developing
community and building relationships for the
entire year. Your focus on connecting students
for the first 6 weeks can make a significant
impact on their experience and on the community
you live in!
Relevant
ResidentAssistant.com Resources
Bulletin
board downloads for August and September
Academic
Success (12k MS Word) This simple board
can be combined with some academic success brochures
from your campus. Simply download, adapt to
fit your school (there's a place where you calculate
how much money is lost for every skipped class,
so you need to figure that out). Then, simply
mount it on construction paper, and add your
own creativity!
Click to zoom in for a preview
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Door Decorations (Door Tags) – Here is
a list of ideas collected off of the listserve
and emailed to the site. Have fun seeing what
other ideas people have come up with! /archive/programming/doortags/
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Use the message boards! – This is a great
way for you to interact with other RAs and Professionals
all over the world! Be sure to search before
you ask a question to see if there is already
a thread with that topic. http://residentassistant.community.everyone.net
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Social Programs – As you have certainly
learned in training, the first 6 weeks of the
first semester are the most critical time in
building community on your floor. The first
couple of weeks are especially crucial! Socials
are an excellent way to get your residents to
know one another. Check out ideas for social
programs at /archive/programming/social/Default.htm
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First Floor Meeting - For some fun icebreakers
and name games for your first floor meeting,
visit the games page at: /archive/games.htm
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Issues
Students May Face In the Months of August &
September
August/September
- Homesickness
- especially for freshmen
- Roommate
conflicts caused by personality differences,
lack of understanding and unwillingness to
compromise or the new experience of having
to live with someone.
- Initial
adjustment to academic environment - feelings
of inadequacy and inferiority develop because
of the discrepancy between high school status
and grades and initial college performance.
- Class
size, especially in mass lecture halls, lack
of personal interest by professors and performance
expectations are also major factors.
- Values
exploration - students are confronted with
questions of conscience over conflict areas
of race and alcohol experimentation, morality,
religion and social expectations.
- New
social life adjustments - including new freedom
of not having to check with parents about
what time to be in, having the opportunity
to experience new areas, making your own decisions
on when to conduct social activities and establishing
yourself in a peer group.
- Initial
social rejections - creates feeling of inadequacy
when not immediately accepted in a peer group,
or into a social sorority or fraternity.
- "En-loco
parentis" problems - students feel depressed
because of real or perceived restrictive policies
and regulations of the college.
- Campus
familiarization - includes becoming familiar
with campus, classrooms, buildings and meeting
places. ¨ Long distance relationship - torn
between being loyal to your significant other
from home and going out with new people. Can
the expectations of both people be adequately
met?
- Financial
adjustment - involves adjusting to a somewhat
tighter budget now that they are in schools
opposed to when they were living at home.
Students who are supporting themselves have
to adjust to budgeting their money also.
- International
student adjustment - experience a sense of
confusion, vulnerability and a lack of any
advocate in higher positions while trying
to make a successful cultural and academic
transition.
- Family
problems seem amplified because the student
may either be caught in the middle, relied
on for the answer or because they are far
away, feeling helpless in helping reach a
solution.
- Adjusting
to "Administrative Red Tape" with
students soon realizing that it is usually
a long and frustrating process when trying
to find an answer to what seems to be a simple
question, or trying to work something through
the administrative process.
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