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Hi. My name is Cassie Pate. I'm a freshman and not an RA, but I do deal with depression and suicide has been an issue this semester. Most of the time if a person goes to someone else (like an RA) and says they've thought about suiccide, they just want someone to listen to them. Suicide probably has crossed their mind and I'm definitely not saying that they aren't serious.  When they're talking about it, it's a good sign. If they don't talk about what they're feeling and thinking, they just keep it inside and get worse. Unless they're standing there with a knife or something, it's really not an emergency situation. My suggestion, listen to them seriously and ask them why they feel that way and what's going on in their life. You do need to get them in touch with counseling or something else, but be sure they know what you're doing and why you're doing it (ie that you care about them) otherwise it could be taken as a betrayl. Just thought I'd offer a little personal experience and what I've learned since dealing with depression. If you want to write me, my e-mail is [email removed] . Thanks.
Cassie
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